Get Your Girlfriend Back With these 3 Secret Winning Tips!

1. Start with an honest examination of your role in the breakup. What things could you have done differently? What could you do differently the next time you start to have relationship problems? I’m not saying you caused the breakup entirely, but owning your role in it will help you figure out how to mend things and get your girlfriend back.

2. Write her a letter (the old-fashioned kind, on paper) explaining all your feelings and how you’re willing to do what it takes to work things out. Writing a letter is so much better than calling or texting because it will require you to put a lot of thought into your words. This is how you’ll best let her know how serious you are about getting back together. Tell her that, now that you’ve had some space, you realize you don’t want to be apart. Ask if you can start from scratch again, with better communication this time.

3. Invite her to an event she would be interested in. During the time you were dating there must have been millions of things you talked about wanting to do or interests she had. Find some event in your area related to one of those. Think along the lines of concerts, exhibits, movies, cultural events or a store she’d always wanted to go to. Call her up and invite her in the “Hey I saw in the paper that ____ is going to open up next wek and remember you mentioned liking that type of thing.” Keep in light and friendly. But have it be something she was actually interested in. This shows her that you really did listen to her and value her thoughts and opinions. It will not only be a good excuse to get to see her, but it’s also in the realm of something an ex on good terms or a friend would do without going over the top or seeming desperate. Remember: If she’s hesitant, the pure nature of the event she’s interested in might be the deciding factor. If it sounds more like a romantic date that you’re asking for, she may turn you down.

How will these things help you get your girlfriend back? Simple, it will let her know how serious you are and will probably show her a side of you she hasn’t seen. Be thoughtful and considerate and you will get your girlfriend back.

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